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Choices

Posted on by Dyanna

Making Choices that help or hinder your twin soul union

The difference between a twin soul relationship and all others is, twin soul relationships are based on the ongoing long term connection between a single soul that has separated for the purpose of having a companion through the journey that the soul choose to undertake. What you are dealing with is the male and female energy of one soul now in two physical forms… That soul does not enter this life with baggage/karma. It is not hampered by feeling of loss or  seeking it’s true partner… These attributes belong to the physical forms that the soul are manifesting through in this life time…Do not be fooled that if you know you have a twin soul there is the possibility it will not work out in the physical because of karma baggage etc…It is up to you to choose to release all that does not belong to your soul  because it is things that you have picked up on the way to where you are now…Becoming aware of a union with another being that is different from all that you have ever experienced… That is just the tip of the iceberg because you are also getting to know a part of your self that has been dormant as ego and others around you have shaped your life…When that part, the author of the relationship begin to stir within, so the delaying tactics begin. Those are not designed to keep the relationship with your twin soul from working, they are designed to keep the relationship with your soul from working…Without a working relationship with your soul it is difficult to manifest a relationship that requires the soul…Your core being is your soul and it is not in any way flawed, it has no karma… You will need to choose the ego/personality which has baggage, karma, doubts, fears, concerns, issues, and no twin soul or the soul which has none  of those issue and a twin soul. Remember you are a spiritual being experiencing a physical life  that means your core must be a spiritual being and to experience life as such you must choose…

What Do I do Now that I found my Twin Flame?

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Understanding your twin flame relationship

Many of you have questions about having found your Twin Flame, now what do I do?  You need to understand that this is not an ordinary relationship and it does not adhere to the ordinary rules that you use to determine whether to go or stay in a relationship. First difference is this relationship is the beginning of a spiritual journey. Even though it touches your emotions and may even stir your libido it is still a spiritual union.  This relationship marks the beginning of a spiritual journey in which you get to know as much about your self and your inner essence as a possible and you grow spiritually. If you think a twin flame relationship is strictly about having someone to “call your own” this relationship will be a shocker to you. What happens during the relationship is that you realize that you must become a spiritual being in order to make the relationship work on a physical level. If you are not ready to begin a true spiritual journey then you are probably not ready for a twin flame relationship. If you are not ready to release all the things you think you know and believe about how a relationship should work you are not ready for a twin flame relationship.  If you are not ready to release the baggage from previous relationships and realize this is a unique and different experience you are not ready for a twin flame relationship. That said if you are truly ready then your journey begins by looking within for that which connects you to your Twin Flame.  You must first become one with your inner essence/soul. From there you will be directed on how to proceed with the manifesting of your Twin Flame relationship into the physical. Also be aware that your “ego” and your soul/inner essence can not share the same “house”. So you have some choices to make, when you have made them amazingly enough you will have taken the steps to find your Twin Flame or the steps to work out the relationship in the physical. Finale note since souls which are the base of Twin Flame relationships do not “dangle carrots” know that if you have met your Twin Flame it is because the relationship is meant to manifest in this life time in the physical. The only thing that will stop it is the choices you make.

Twin Flame Twin Soul Relationships

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Twin Flame Twin Soul  relationships have a spiritual beginning

First of all if your ego is the first thing that enters the conversation/relationship with you twin soul you lose. If your pride and your ego enter the conversation or the relationship it is done.  Twin flame relationships serve the purpose of elevating the participant to the highest spiritual  level that can be achieved. Thru a twin soul relationship you may achieve Nirvana. Problem is most people try to get there by a twin body relationship which includes egos, pride and props. Too bad they work for your ordinary short term relationships but get no where fast in a twin soul relationship. The twin soul relationship is a relationship that began in the spiritual realm of the soul and is introduced to the physical realm not to tease or to torture. but to show you what is achievable by connecting spiritually to another being. Because all things must be created on the spiritual/astral/higher plane  before it manifest in your life the twin soul  relationship becomes a true challenge for us. Because we do not truly realize that we are creating most of the time with our thoughts good, bad or  indifferent we begin the creation process in our lives with out us being aware that we are creating.  The twin flame relationship requires us to be completely aware of the spiritual side of our lives it can not be addressed in the hit and miss fashion that most of our lives are treated to.. When you learn to focus on a event in the spiritual you realize that you have more control than you think over your life. The key is that spiritual focus connects you to the soul the author of your fantastic relationship also the one with the inside knowledge on manifesting your life in a positive manner. It then becomes like having the key to the front door of the bank and the combination to the vault and the legal right to use both as you desire. Unfortunately in this exclusive relationship between twin souls  these guys, egos, pride and relationship props are not welcome. Just as thieves are not welcome in the bank vault. They have an uncanny way of destroying all that we have worked so hard for.  Sometimes we just have to grit our teeth and say “yes this is really annoying” but I am going to let it pass with out comment mentally or physically. Learning to do that helps remove the events that make you feel that way. If you can’t do that events that make you feel that way continue they play directly to you ego, pride and need for relationship props.. Important to remind yourself when interacting with your twin soul that all you truly need to be happy is love if you have that  everything else will follow… Even the relationship coming to fruition. It is where you focus  that creates what you get in life. I have found that a body to body connection in a twin soul relationship is not very fulfilling, but a soul to soul connection well that rocks. But you can only achieve that if you look to the soul/spiritual aspect of the relationship to create the physical aspect. Can’t create it from the physical inward that my friends don’t work either.

How do you achieve this connection spiritually without spending every minute thinking about it because obviously you can not do that. Ladies you do it the same way  you apply your make up, you do it before you walk out the door you take a moment and place your daily interaction in a positive though pattern.. Gentlemen you do the same . If we are going to meet our twin flames/twin souls after a long day  ladies you refresh your makeup before you go out gentlemen you take care of the 5 o’clock shadow before you go out right?  Then refresh your positive approach to to the events of the evening..take nothing for granted always prepare with a positive mind set and reinforce that as often as necessary. For those of you who want to leave nothing to chance think of it this way it is the souls relationship so the souls will be done in the handling of the relationship..they have got to know more about what is going on than the body because it has been their relationship more lifetimes than the years you have lived in this body. It isn’t their first relationship it is your first twin soul relationship.