Hold up before you pick up that cell phone

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A twin soul relationship is a sacred one, which contrary to “belief” has very little to do with the physical.
What I mean by that is that even though twin souls inhabit physical bodies, the relationship is one between the souls and that is the souls or inner beings guiding their physical bodies. It’s never about the physical.
Your relationship with your inner being is a spiritual one. Therefore, your inner being is guiding your every move. For those who have a twin soul, the soul always calls the shots because if the bodies let go of their inner beings’ reins, so to speak, body’s out there on there own making some fumbling, bumbling electric boogaloo moves at that point.
Here’s one scenario, body minus the soul goes off to text her twin soul, because she “picked up” on something that informed her to text her other half. But body didn’t check-in with her inner being to confirm it was coming from her inner being. No, it was a not so subtle “external” voice telling her to go ahead. Body stepped out of her inner being’s energy to grab her cell phone and text her twin soul, only to be greeted by a moody twit whose off-key response wasn’t his soul’s.
Truth is twin souls don’t do anything without the guidance of their soul, because it means that not only is moody twit being slapped and tickled by the nearby chaos at that point, it also means his nearest and dearest isn’t in the control seat. Both bodies have leapt to the forefront leaving their inner beings at home stomping their feet and clicking their fingers to usher bumbling bodies to get back to their seats.
Twin souls always operate in the spiritual 24/7 365. The preferred communications always take place on the spiritual and psychic planes. Even when you are married and settled with your twin soul, the communications are still on a soul-to-soul level. Meaning even though you are sitting down next to your twin soul and having a polite conversation with him in the physical, the deeper and more meaningful conversation is taking place on the spiritual, often simultaneously. Physical communications are just an add-on, if it were.
So rule of thumb, if you want pleasant communications between you and your twin soul, make sure your inner being is guiding that conversation otherwise when bumbling bodies minus the soul come together, all the bodies are capable of at that point is a game of bumper cars, quite literally. A collision that the souls are looking on in shame. It’s like wearing L-plates for eternity when the bodies attempt to take charge of the relationship that belongs to their inner beings.
In a twin soul relationship, it’s a bit like following “The Green Cross Code” when it comes to communications. For those not familiar with The Green Cross Code, it’s taught in schools in the UK to raise awareness of road safety. It goes like this:
1. First find the safest place to cross
2. Stop just before you get to the kerb
3. Look all around for traffic and listen
4. If traffic is coming, let it pass
5. When it is safe, go straight across the road, do not run
The same rules can be applied to communications with your twin soul in the physical. “The Twin Soul Cross Code” goes a little something like this:
1. First check the “urge” to call your twin soul is coming from your inner being
2. Stop just before you pick up your cell phone
3. Look towards your inner being and listen
4. If your inner being is not giving you the nudge, let it pass
5. If your inner being confirms to send a text to your twin soul, pick up your cell phone and text, remember be in the here and now

Rosalyn Medea is a journalist, spiritual life coach, intuitive reader and all-round creative warrior

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Transformation: Imbolc 2016

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Transformation in keeping with the Season

Imbolc is a time of transformation, How would you like to transform your life? If you want to change something start with a manageable part of the change. Desire to change, move from a true desire to transform a situation in our life to taking action. What are the steps necessary to begin the transformation? Commit to the change you desire. Visualize how your life will be different with that change. Now Commit to the first step you need to take for that transformation to take place. Now you are on your way to creating a change in your life that you desire. If you should lose your momentum then return to the first steps again do that as often as you need. But understand that change does not happen over night. The butterfly must go through some unpleasant stages before it becomes the amazing creature we see. If you are in an area with lots of snow then you know how long the transformation from winter to spring seems. All I am saying is give your self some time to see the results of your commitment.

Imbolc:Transformation
Still need help with the process? Some encouragement, a bit of guidance? Then look for a spiritual or holistic life coach to help you keep your momentum. Either will be able to guide you and encourage you when you feel overwhelmed or just don’t see the progress you believe should be manifesting.

Connecting with your inner being

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Connecting with your inner being

Working with your soul shouldn’t be that difficult and it really isn’t when you stop fretting and start living from the place of inner peace that is oneness with your soul. Yes that energetic realm that is expansive, abundant and infinite, when you allow it to happen, can easily be reached within seconds.
Living in the physical world we have grown accustomed to very physical indicators or confirmation of things based on human experiences – eg. having money to affirm our wealth or owning a house with two cars and a garden to affirm so called “happiness”. These are all very tangible things that can be gone within seconds. Oneness is yours for life in this lifetime.
We are used to having concrete things in front of our very own eyes that confirm things for us. But when it comes to working with your inner being, there is none of that. There are no goalposts as such and there is no confirmation that you are there yet other than just a state of being. If you are looking for goalposts or a visual confirmation that you are your inner being you may just be waiting a while.
On my own spiritual journey, I’ve always looked for signals that I am one with my soul and more times than my soul cares to even mention at this point, I have got there within moments only to have missed the boat and slipped back into human physical
mode again because the “conditioning” has had me believe I was waiting for some kind of “big bang” moment.
The focus was there but the wrong focus – rather than focusing on the inner peace of my inner being I was focusing on “the wham bam thank you maam” moment. But inner beings are way more subtle than that and if you pay attention to the subtle energy of your inner being, you will get there and in no time. A bit like meditating but without the wait – oneness can be as instant as you want it to be – all it takes is the focus on and the desire and intent to be in your inner peace at all times. It’s that complete state of inner peace amidst the chaotic physical world. When you know what it feels like to be in complete inner peace at all times, it makes it harder to slip out of it.
Once there you are able to intuitively live your life, but don’t be attempting to put up those goalposts or visuals because at that point, you are back in to drab old human mode. And for those with a twin soul who struggle to connect with their partner in crime on a spiritual level, don’t be attempting to stick a visual of him in your head either because you’ll quickly find out that that dude you thought was your twin soul ain’t your twin soul but some chaos-driven image of someone to keep you out of your oneness, for one, and to keep you from connecting to the other half of your soul. And besides that “image” or so called persona of your twin soul has nothing to say and, believe me, is just as mundane as some of the men you may have dated in the past 😉
Souls use all senses to help you in your awareness of their presence, after all your inner being is 100% energy. To have an awareness of your own inner being is to be aware of them on an energetic level. The same goes for your twin soul. To be aware of him on an energetic level it requires you to be aware of your own inner being, after all you both share the same soul. Focus on your own inner being and you finesse the focus on him and who he is, as there’s no difference between you both other than he’s the male half of your soul.
When you become aware of your inner being on an energetic level, there is no more guess work, you know what it is you need to do moment by moment, guided by your higher mind, and it quickly becomes second nature to be a spiritual being in a physical world as opposed to what you perceived yourself to be prior to living live with soul. It also allows for you to become acquainted with your inner being and what belongs to her, and from that point actually begin to develop your relationship with your true self – a relationship that is immune to any BS that the physical world throws at you, and one in which unconditional love, abundance, prosperity, healing and all the things you may strive for in the physical world is there for you in a heartbeat thanks to your inner being.
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Huria Choudhari is a journalist, creative warrior, intuitive counsellor and life coach. She writes about music, fashion and lifestyle for Life & Soul Magazine: www.lifeandsoulmagazine.com. Having carved her journalism career in news and current affairs, Huria is a truth seeker. Applying that very same ethic, she also offers creative coaching and intuitive counselling services to help others discover their own truth. Get in touch with Huria at www.lifeandsoulcreatives.com or www.lifesoulfreedom.com

How is your relationship with your true self?

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Your Relationship with your true self is reflected in your twin soul relationship

Your Relationship with your true self

While working with twin souls and doing spiritual life coaching one theme has continuously presented it self. I find that people believe that they can create the life they desire without their true self participating. If you leave your true self out of your life there will always be something missing, Something just our of reach, It is not possible to compartmentalize your life without some parts of it suffering. By first understanding and choosing to engage your true self in all aspects of your life you are able to get a better understanding of the direction your life needs to take for your ultimate fulfillment. If you are attempting to manifest a twin soul relationship into the physical it is important to first engage with your true self so that you have the benefit of  the intuition, perception and awareness of the true self.  It is why I have always stated that meeting your twin soul is meant to be the beginning of a relationship between you and your true self. Without that relationship between you and your true self your twin soul relationship tend to struggle. That is because it is hampered by how we perceive things, by facades and illusions interfering. The stronger your relationship with  your true self the stronger your relationship with your twin soul. You are able to see past the facades, illusions, and the chaos that is normally present when a twin soul union attempts to manifest physically. With that thought in mind how is your relationship with your true self? Not sure, look at your relationship with your twin soul. Is your relationship with your twin soul progressing as you desire it? What would you like to change in it? Now look again at how you engage with your true self. Twin souls relationships do mirror each other. Your relationship with your true self  and with your twin soul mirror each other. Are you trying to make the relationship work without your true self?

Yule 2014

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Yule 2014 Greetings and Blessing to all
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“So the shortest day came, and the year died,
And everywhere down the centuries of the snow-white world
Came people singing, dancing,
To drive the dark away.
They lighted candles in the winter trees;
They hung their homes with evergreen;
They burned beseeching fires all night long
To keep the year alive,
And when the new year’s sunshine blazed awake
They shouted, reveling.
Through all the frosty ages you can hear them
Echoing behind us – Listen!!
All the long echoes sing the same delight,
This shortest day,
As promise wakens in the sleeping land:
They carol, fest, give thanks,
And dearly love their friends,
And hope for peace.
And so do we, here, now,
This year and every year.
Welcome Yule!!”
– Susan Cooper, The Shortest Day

“The holly and the ivy, when they were both full grown,
Of all the trees that are in the wood, the holly bears the crown. . .

I am the Holly King, Lord of the Waning Year. You may know me as the Green Man or as the Winter King. I rule from Midsummer to Midwinter, and my reign culminates in the festivities of Yuletide. As the wren dies to make way for the robin, soon I will bow before my brother the Oak King. You will not see me again until the Sun once more begins to wane. As I prepare to withdraw into the deep midwinter, I contemplate the glowing light of the reborn Sun in my cup — and in this holy grail, I see visions and dreams of the year to come.
Carry a sprig of holly with you as my token. It will protect you against fierce winter storms, and will bestow upon you the focus, direction and courage you need to succeed in your own spiritual quest.
Fill your homes with holly this season! Deck the halls! My evergreen leaves and bright red berries, seen against the barren oaks of winter, will remind you of the Life that sustains us during the bitterest time of the year.”
–   The Holly King