“Rebuilding trust when it’s been broken is not dependent only on the person who has broken it, or how many times they can prove they are honest. It depends on the person who has decided not to trust anymore. Though they may be totally justified in their decision not to trust, as long as they choose not to, the relationship has no hope of survival and should be ended. If or when they decide to trust again, there is hope reborn. ” Doe Zantamata

Intuitive Reader Specializing in Love and Spiritual Relationships

 

“You cannot convince someone to see something that they do not want to see, or just cannot see, no matter how much you know it would improve their life. You have to love and accept them exactly as they are today. If you cannot do that, you have to let them go and find their own way, in their own time, if they ever choose to do so. Otherwise, you’ll be giving them the power over your happiness, too.  ” Doe Zantamata

Intuitive Reader Specializing in Love and Spiritual Relationships

 

“There’s a big difference between just feeling sorry for yourself and reflecting on your feelings. If you can’t talk to anyone openly about them, then journal. If you don’t know what’s wrong, you can’t fix it. Reflection is essential. Write down what you’re feeling, what seems to be causing the draining and depressing feelings, and think in terms of how you’re contributing to the circumstances (even if only by allowing them to continue) and what you can do to change them. It takes effort, but it’s worth it. ” Doe Zantamata

Intuitive Reader Specializing in Love and Spiritual Relationships

 

 

“Appreciating a lesson learned means: being grateful you have the wisdom for tomorrow that you didn’t have yesterday.  “Doe Zantamata
Intuitive Reader Specializing in Love and Spiritual Relationships

 

“Some of the greatest gifts of forgiveness are the realizations of peace. You realize that no time was ever wasted, you were never a mistake in anyone’s life, and no one was ever a mistake in yours. Because no matter how long a painful experience was present in your life, it was only there the exact amount of time it needed to be to show you what you know today as truth. This realization cannot be felt before forgiveness of yourself or others, but it will always be felt once you have fully forgiven. “Doe Zantamata
Intuitive Reader Specializing in Love and Spiritual Relationships