“Consider those who you love in your choices, but if your choices conflict with their expectations of you, then you have to decide if 1. trying to be who they want you to be, or 2. being who you really are is ultimately more important to everyone’s long term happiness. You can only pretend for so long, but you can be yourself until your very last breath. ” Doe Zantamata
. Intuitive Reader Specializing in Love and Spiritual Relationships  

“Compassion dissolves anger. Understanding why someone behaves the way they do allows for forgiveness when they have mistreated you. Maybe they are insecure, or in pain, or maybe they even suffered some type of abuse in their lifetime, and you can see why they are the waythey are. But when your compassion extends to excusing them for treating you poorly, over and over, it not only damages your self-worth, but prevents them from healing as well. Refuse to allow it to continue, for everyone’s sake. “Doe Zantamata

Intuitive Reader Specializing in Love and Spiritual Relationships

 

 

“Rebuilding trust when it’s been broken is not dependent only on the person who has broken it, or how many times they can prove they are honest. It depends on the person who has decided not to trust anymore. Though they may be totally justified in their decision not to trust, as long as they choose not to, the relationship has no hope of survival and should be ended. If or when they decide to trust again, there is hope reborn. ” Doe Zantamata

Intuitive Reader Specializing in Love and Spiritual Relationships

 

“You cannot convince someone to see something that they do not want to see, or just cannot see, no matter how much you know it would improve their life. You have to love and accept them exactly as they are today. If you cannot do that, you have to let them go and find their own way, in their own time, if they ever choose to do so. Otherwise, you’ll be giving them the power over your happiness, too.  ” Doe Zantamata

Intuitive Reader Specializing in Love and Spiritual Relationships