Love is not logical but when you choose a partner, it is good to have things in common other than desire. This is a time to weigh the pros and cons of your relationship. If there is enough common ground, go for it. If not, there are other fish in the sea. Don’t force it to work. If others tell you who they are, take them at their word. Now is not the time to indulge in a fantasy. No matter what, in this case, the facts are the facts.
Relationships offer us the opportunity to deepen our love and trust and to experience personal transformation because wanting to make a relationship work can be the key to releasing your beliefs about how the other person ought to act and how very right you are at all times. Instead, focus on your own truths. Be more flexible, so that even when obstacles seem to be blocking you from love you recognize your ability to become fluid and move around them.
Your true self wants you to have the relationship you desire. you are called to raise your vibrations and put energy into what you do want instead of what you don’t want.
You have reached a moment of truth in the evolution of your relationship. Which will you choose: to open up to the possibilities of love, or to remain isolated to go deeper and commit to mutual passion, or to walk away? This is a time to take responsibility for your truest desire and follow it. Be honest with yourself about what you are willing to do, invest, and give. Then choose. You cannot make a wrong choice.
Other people are who they are. You can’t change them. The challenge is to accept them as they are and not try to make them otherwise to suit you. This is a time to look at how you attempt to mold people to fit your view of how they should be so you can remain in the relationship and avoid discomfort. What if who they are, and whatever is happening between you and them in this situation, is perfect from the perspective of higher mind and soul?
What is it your heart truly desires? What do you perceive is missing in your life? In order to find the answers, you must look inside your heart. You already know this but have been reluctant to look because a part of you fears what your heart is trying to tell you. The only way forward is to face your fear. Something in your life is not working out as you would have liked and it’s not going to get any better unless you have the courage to face it.