“Everything in the world has a natural ebb and flow. The tides move out but flow in again. While the flow is much more comfortable, the ebb has great meaning. When time and resources are stripped away, you can see clearly what and who truly matters to you and who you matter to in return. When your flow returns, you’ll know exactly with who and where your time will be best spent, with a brand new appreciation for it all. “Doe Zantamata

 

 

“The worst thing about lies is that they cause a person to doubt if they should trust so much. But the problem isn’t too much trust, the problem is too many lies. Recognize when you can’t trust a certain person anymore but don’t let that spill over to all people. You’ll never find true love at arm’s length, but if you put up a wall of mistrust, that’s the closest anyone can get. “Doe Zantamata

 

 

“Always assume that people cannot understand your perspective and feelings unless you’ve explained them to them. What is so clear from where you stand may be completely invisible from a different perspective. If you do explain and they still don’t get it or just don’t care, then it doesn’t mean you’ve wasted your time. It just means that you now know for sure that if you value being understood or considered, this won’t be a person who can do those things very well, if even at all. “Doe Zantamata

 

 

“There are three levels of trust. It is possible to have all three, or to have only one or two. It is only possible to be truly happy when all three are in place. 1. Trust in self: You make your own decisions, use your intuition, talk to others but don’t rely on others to make decisions for you. 2. Trust in others: Everyone has 100% trust until they prove untrustworthy. You believe all people are good inside. 3. Trust in the Universe: You know you are part of a bigger plan, so even when things seem wrong, you know they will improve. “Doe Zantamata

 

 

“Your mind wants to be right, but your soul wants the truth. This is why you should never discuss conflicting ideas in anger or sadness. Anger and sadness are emotions of the mind. When faced with the truth that your soul recognizes, you will feel it in your heart, but with the anger or sadness, your mind will force you to keep arguing, find something else to be right about, or deny being wrong. This prevents the truth and peace from returning. “Doe Zantamata