I am reblogging this from an earlier blog post because the issue has not really changed .
What kind of relationship is a twin flame/ twin soul relationship? Is it a spiritual relationship or a physical relationship? Scenario: You meet the most remarkable person, there is instant bonding… Then nothing, the other person pulls back, pull away. You keep trying to find a way to reconnect. Unfortunately, all of your efforts are directed at the physical body. Are you surprised when it doesn’t work? Yes, you are. Do you know why it doesn’t work? Here is where the real trouble begins… Those who say it shouldn’t be. Those who tell you that you are obsessing and those who have absolutely no clue but are full of suggestions. Well here is a very simple answer the original moments, days weeks, or even months of bonding were caused by a simple soul to soul connection. This connection is really what the relationship is all about. To find that wonderful bond again you must find the soul to soul connection again. Unless you have made the acquaintance of your own soul you are going to have a bit of difficulty getting to know his/her soul. It is this that makes the twin flame/twin soul relationship difficult for many. It requires you to focus on your spiritual well-being in order to manifest the physical, spiritual bonding that brought you so much joy. Are you willing to do the work and get to know your own soul so you can have the relationship of your dreams? That is what makes a twin flame/twin soul relationship both special and difficult… It forces you to be the best being you can be and that requires you to get to know your soul and its true purpose usually a purpose that you share with your twin flame/twin soul. It really and truly is a soul-based relationship.
I have looked at lots of information on Twin Flames, Soul mates and Karmic partnerships. I want to focus on Twin Flame Relationships. A twin Flame relationship is brought about when one soul shares two bodies. There are two obvious reasons why Twin Flames seek each other out one is for the reuniting of the two souls into one the other would be the creating of Divine Love which is the greatest power in the Universe. For most who find themselves working on a Twin Flame relationship, this is meant to be your soul’s last visit to this reality. Each time a Twin Flame relationship works as it should it goes a long ways toward correcting the balance in this reality. Because the balance in this reality has so obviously tilted to the side of Chaos and Negativity what should be a joyous reunion between souls have become an uphill battle all the way. The Twin Flame relationship is different in that the relationship starts with soul recognition. Usually, the body that the souls occupy is nothing like what you would seek as your “ideal mate” the person may be shorter, chubbier, different nationality or faith than you would normally be attracted to, etc… The first hurdle to be leaped then is recognizing your Twin Flame despite the fact they don’t fit in the “ideal mate” category. The key to being able to do this is by being connected to the primary players in this relationship which is the Souls/Higher Selves. Without that connection, the ego will spring up after a very short time and remind one or both of the people involved of the “differences” allowing for influence by chaos. Now the real fun begins as one of the people involved recognize the relationship for what it is while the other one believes that the intense feelings and emotions stirred by the initial coming together of the two souls are a fluke. So influenced by the Chaos that flows regularly around us he/she heads of to pursue more worthy endeavors dragging an unwilling Soul/Higher Self along for the ride. When the Higher Self/Soul is able to get through to the body again it usually restores communication or connections with the one who is the other half of its Soul,. Hence the beginning of the “dance” which can go on for months or years. The body comes with a Primary Guide as well as other guides who influence the decisions of the body. Unfortunately, not all of the guides are interested in the same things for one’s life, and if any of the guides are dark they tend to lead the body on a merry-go-round. This makes the other half of the Soul doubt the connection because at times they feel the connection between the Souls and at other times it is as if they deal with a “total stranger” who can be hostile even. This is usually an indication that the “body” is not being guided by the Higher Self/Soul. This is the only explanation that makes sense when someone who declared and showed his/her undying love and passion suddenly turns to you and say ” I am not the one for you” I don’t want to be with you” ” I don’t love you” it is like dealing with Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. Now all of the reading I have done on Twin Flames do not describe this phenomenon which is unique to Twin Flames. When this behavior occurred with a “soul mate” one is able to feel that the connection is no longer there and move on. Their hearts release the other person readily and there is an awareness that the time together is ended. With Twin Flames many times I get the question “am I just obsessed” which comes when the person thinks they should no longer feel any emotions in the situation because they have gotten little encouragement from the other party who appears to have moved on with their lives etc.. Usually, in a Twin Flame relationship, I have found that one of the persons involved has a better connection with their Soul/Higher Self which keeps the feelings alive. Since this relationship is primarily a connection between two souls if one of the bodies is a five sensory being it is harder for the Soul to direct that body to acknowledge the connection as it is continuously looking for the “ideal mate” on a physical level and ignoring the Soul connection that it feels. The other issue is because many ego driven individuals must compare every experience to the past to check its relevance in the present they have nothing to compare a Twin Flame relationship to so they simply push it aside as not “valid”. The next issue is, of course, doing the work on a spiritual level to make a spiritual relationship work so that it may manifest in the physical. The first step is always to connect to your Higher Self/Soul and then to the Higher Self/Soul of your Twin Flame. It is important for the Higher Selves/Soul to know that you are fully aware that the emotions you are experiencing are soul connected and are only there when the Higher Selves/souls are present with BOTH bodies. Speaking with anyone who is in a Twin Flame Relationship you will learn that they have had some difficult moments to endure and there were times that they were truly embattled by family, friends, and circumstances. There is usually something that interferes, which is usually powered by chaos or negative forces no matter how well meaning they may seem. The Hurdles to be surmounted are many but the relationship at the end is more than worth the work that must be put into it. My experience over the last twenty years shows that if you recognize this relationship and work with the spiritual aspect it does come to fruition. However one must understand this is first and foremost a spiritual relationship that must be nurtured spiritually in order to meet any of the physical expectations that we have for it…
Author: Lady Dyanna PhD, is an intuitive reader and pastoral counselor, specializing in twin flame relationships and soul mate relationships. A teacher of metaphysics, magic, spiritual and psychic development, Dyanna has over 20 years of experience in spiritual guidance, relationship guidance, guiding twin flame relationships to fruition and guidance in maintaining your relationship. She also does tarot readings, intuitive readings, spiritual life coaching and energy, and light healing.
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Twin souls have a commitment to each other that you may not see clearly in the physical. That is because the commitment is between the souls. When you meet your twin soul it is not the beginning of a hot and steamy physical romance. Instead, it is your wake up call from the souls that it is time to turn your sights inward to your own inner being. When you begin to look inward you find the path to your physical twin soul relationship is written there. How do you translate it? What do you need to do to be able to access this special path? You need to get to know your soul. Because as you learn about your inner being you are also learning about your twin soul. This is a time of transformation. A time when your inner you becomes your outer you because that is what is necessary to manifest a twin soul relationship. It is really the beginning of a spiritual journey.
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As Litha/Summer Solstice approach I am reminded that it is a time that in the past was used to do healing, and protection for family and those things important to the well being of the family. As this Litha approach I would suggest that we look to emotional healing and protection on a personal level . Healing feelings and emotions is as important as healing the physical body. I have noticed that in twin flame relationships the emotions and feeling take quite a beating as the couple attempts to work out their relationship. That beating is not just from the misunderstanding and mis directions that the couple endure with each other it seems that family and friends are all to willing to contribute. This Litha celebrate the turning of the season with a bit of emotional healing and protection for your self. Start with the awareness that a twin soul relationship stem from one soul being divided into it’s male and female components and instead of working together energetically as is normal they must work through two individual physical forms. When those forms deny their oneness the emotional struggle begins. This Litha try to see the oneness in spite of everything. Try for a renewal of your relationship on the spiritual level where the souls are one and no harsh or hurtful things have been said or done. You may use meditation to reach that place, first invite your true self to join you and renew your aquaintance with her/him when you are satisfied with your communication with your true self ask if there is an irrepariable breach in the union between her/him and their other half. Invite the other half to join you in meditation, witness that union, that connection between the two halves of the soul. From that grasp what your physical union will look and feel like. Ask them both for help with the emotional healing that must take place within you. As you understand that on the spiritual level there is no seperation between the souls, it is only in the mind that they are seperated and in that the emotional upheaval take place, you will begin the your emotional healing. Now before you leave meditation ask for the key to protect that awareness. When dealing with your twin flame in the physical it is always acceptable to reach out to his/her true self and let them know that you remember there is no seperation. Remeber what we hold in our minds as true we create in our physical reality. So take this Litha, the longest day in the year and change your reality. The emotional healing reminds you that there is one soul two physical forms, the souls are never angry or unhappy with each other. That would be much like you being angry with half of your body. When you do something that cause you an issues you do not remain angry with yourself hopefully. You forgive your self and work with the issue. When you deal with your Twin flame it is much the same as working with your self.
