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Guest Post:Get to know “you” to truly know your twin soul

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Developing the relationship with your true self requires you to focus within. For those who are a twin soul, focusing on your own inner being is to focus on him or her.

Some clients that I work with who are in twin soul relationships often come  at the relationship with their focus solely on the other half of their soul – reaching out for their twin soul rather than going within and searching for their own inner being. They put all their focus on their twin soul without acknowledging their own true self.

Truth is your twin soul shares the same soul as you, but you can’t have any kind of relationship with the other half of yourself without acknowledging and accepting yourself and who you truly are.

You can’t know the other half of your soul without knowing who you are. He or she is looking for your inner being when you reach out. Anyone who has concerns about their twin soul not “communicating”, may want to check if they are “communicating” with their own inner being and more to the point being their true self or not.

You have to put your all in to your inner being and being your true self to have a successful relationship with your twin soul. When you open yourself up to your true self, you are simultaneously opening yourself up to your twin soul. The more you release anything and everything that does not belong to your inner being, you open yourself up to your own true self. And when you fix your relationship with your true self and accept and acknowledge who you truly are, the relationship that belongs to your inner being falls into place just like that.

For those who are in a twin soul relationship and wondering why it is not working, take a look not at the other half of your soul but at yourself. Reach within and get to know who you are, that is your true self. Do the work on yourself to have that flawless connection to your twin soul, but most importantly to have that flawless connection with your true self, for he/she is you and you are he/she. You work on both of you just by  focusing on your inner being, your true self.

When you have a solid relationship with your inner being, you have a solid relationship with your twin soul. When you communicate with your inner being, you are effectively communicating with your twin soul too.

When you are working on developing your relationship with your own inner being, reach out to the other half of your soul. Let him or her know that you desire them to be involved in every aspect of your life. He will offer you the “male perspective” of yourself, and you, the “female perspective” of himself. Or she will offer you the “female perspective” of yourself, and you, the “male perspective” of herself. Whatever you are doing throughout the day, while you are being guided by your inner being, reach out to your twin soul and get them involved and get their opinion on everything – anything from what to wear, what to watch, and what to eat – as well as finding out what they need from you.

Having this strength of connection to your own inner being as well as your twin soul’s inner being on a spiritual level, makes for a much smoother relationship with he/she in the physical. That way you have soul to soul at the forefront at all times.

What can be harder than being in a relationship with the other half of you. For many it’s a major issue because they have to work on them self, get to know them self and that for many people, can be difficult because many have an awkward relationship with them self. But if you know who you are, your true self inside-out, a twin soul relationship is a smooth relationship, for you are one and the same. So get to know your self and do the work on your self, and recognise how blessed you are to be in such a unique relationship.

Love and honour your true self and your twin soul will love and honour their true self. What’s more just as you come into loving and honouring your true self, you come into loving and honouring your twin soul, therefore he/she comes into loving and honouring you, his or her twin soul. So start doing the work on you and start loving and respecting you, so you can have the love of your life and he or she can have the love of their life, you.

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Rosalyn Medea is a journalist, writer, spiritual life coach, intuitive reader and all-round creative warrior

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Your Relationship with your true self is reflected in your twin soul relationship

Your Relationship with your true self

While working with twin souls and doing spiritual life coaching one theme has continuously presented it self. I find that people believe that they can create the life they desire without their true self participating. If you leave your true self out of your life there will always be something missing, Something just our of reach, It is not possible to compartmentalize your life without some parts of it suffering. By first understanding and choosing to engage your true self in all aspects of your life you are able to get a better understanding of the direction your life needs to take for your ultimate fulfillment. If you are attempting to manifest a twin soul relationship into the physical it is important to first engage with your true self so that you have the benefit of  the intuition, perception and awareness of the true self.  It is why I have always stated that meeting your twin soul is meant to be the beginning of a relationship between you and your true self. Without that relationship between you and your true self your twin soul relationship tend to struggle. That is because it is hampered by how we perceive things, by facades and illusions interfering. The stronger your relationship with  your true self the stronger your relationship with your twin soul. You are able to see past the facades, illusions, and the chaos that is normally present when a twin soul union attempts to manifest physically. With that thought in mind how is your relationship with your true self? Not sure, look at your relationship with your twin soul. Is your relationship with your twin soul progressing as you desire it? What would you like to change in it? Now look again at how you engage with your true self. Twin souls relationships do mirror each other. Your relationship with your true self  and with your twin soul mirror each other. Are you trying to make the relationship work without your true self?

Emotional Healing and Protection Litha 2013

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Litha a time for emotional healing and protection

As Litha/Summer Solstice approach I am reminded that it is a time that in the past was used to do healing, and protection for family and those things important to the well being of the family. As this Litha approach I would suggest that we look to emotional healing  and protection on a personal level . Healing feelings and emotions is as important as healing the physical body. I have noticed that in twin flame relationships the emotions and feeling take quite a beating as the couple  attempts to work out their relationship. That beating  is not just from the misunderstanding and mis directions that the couple endure with each other it seems that family and friends are all to willing to contribute.  This Litha celebrate the turning of the season with a bit of emotional healing and protection for your self. Start with the awareness that a twin soul relationship stem from one soul being divided into it’s male and female components and instead of working together energetically as is normal they must work through two individual physical forms. When those forms deny their oneness the emotional struggle begins. This Litha try to see the oneness in spite of everything. Try for a renewal of your relationship on the spiritual level where the souls are one and no harsh or hurtful things have been said or done. You may use meditation to reach that place, first invite your true self to join you and renew your aquaintance with her/him when you are satisfied with your communication with your true self ask if there is an irrepariable breach in the union between her/him and their other half.  Invite the other half to join you in meditation, witness that union, that connection between the two halves of the soul. From that grasp what your physical union will look and feel like. Ask them both for help with the emotional healing that must take place within you.  As you understand that on the spiritual level there is no seperation between the souls, it is only in the mind that they are seperated and in that the emotional upheaval take place, you will begin the your emotional healing. Now before you leave meditation ask for the key to protect that awareness. When dealing with your twin flame in the physical it is always acceptable to reach out to his/her true self and let them know that you remember there is no seperation. Remeber what we hold in our minds as true we create in our physical reality. So take this Litha, the longest day in the year and change your reality. The emotional healing reminds you that there is one soul two physical forms, the souls are never angry or unhappy with each other. That would be much like you being angry with half of your body. When you do something that cause you an issues you do not remain angry with yourself hopefully. You forgive your self and work with the issue. When you deal with your Twin flame it is much the same as working with your self.

 


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Oil For Your Lamp Movie

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Mother Teresa said, “To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it.” Most women are so busy filling the lamps of the people they love that they let their own lamps run low. Here is a little movie to remind all women to fill their lamp…

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Awakening to the True Self

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You are a Spiritual being awakening to your true self

You are a spiritual being.  Your twin soul relationship awakens you to your true self.  Manifesting your twin soul relationship is part of  your awakening to your true self. You are a soul with a body. It is this concept that you must embrace and understand to manifest your twin soul relationship. It is a relationship between souls. In order to enjoy this relationship you must transition from an ego/personality/body with a soul to a soul with a body which is your true state of existence. There are many roads to reach this state, you may visualize, affirm, or meditate. but until you reach your true self your Twin Soul relationship will remain just out of your reach. It is why so many are discourage or counseled to abandon this difficult relationship. The difficulty comes because we have become complacent living as a ego/personality instead of the true souls we are. When we reach for the twin soul relationship we do so through ego/personality means and find that the relationship cause “pain, frustration, and angst. Those are only reminders that we are a spiritual being  encased in an ego driven physical form it is not a sign that you should abandon the relationship. Instead it is a sign  that it is time to begin our spiritual journey as a soul in this physical world.  We are being pushed to break out of the ego/personality/ body  existence and step into the true self. Meeting your twin soul is the alarm clock that says it is time to wake up.