The energy of the 4 of Cups can indicate that you need to focus on yourself. When life is too stressful, you need to devote time and energy to yourself or you will feel overwhelmed. This card reminds you to engage in a positive period of self-reflection and renewal. By taking the time to go within to dream, muse and reflect, you restore your emotional balance.
Relationship energy with the 4 of cups indicates that things are not going well. You are dissatisfied with something in the relationship. You may feel as if things are in a rut. That the relationship is feeling stale and flat. Take time to focus specifically on what is bothering you. Perhaps you need something to focus on that will engage your heart and mind. Open your self to your surrounding. Take a moment and truly look at your relationship with your significant other, is it really as bad as you are making it out to be? If you still think it is after taking some time to look at it then sit down with your partner for a heart to heart. Before you do this, is the problem that is bothering you really something that your partner has control over? Is it just that you have both given in to the stress of life and lost sight of the things that made you happy and gave your relationship its special energy. If this is the case then take some time and restore the balance to your life and relationship
If there is no one special in your life right now it is not because you have a lack of interested suitors. Perhaps it is because you are not interested in any of them. That does not mean none of them are worthy of your interest. There is a good chance that someone who at any other time would pique your interest is right there under your nose. Time to for a little positive self-reflection and renewal. By taking the time to go within you restore your emotional balance and once again are open to opportunities.
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This card was last seen September 7, 2018.
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