Other people are who they are. You can’t change them. The challenge is to accept them as they are and not try to make them otherwise to suit you. This is a time to look at how you attempt to mold people to fit your view of how they should be so you can remain in the relationship and avoid discomfort. What if who they are, and whatever is happening between you and them in this situation, is perfect from the perspective of higher mind and soul?
Step out of the same old same old and into a new way of interacting. Perhaps something as basic as saying “thank you” or “I love you” more often or speaking your truth with love and conviction even in relation to seemingly trivial things. Big journeys of healing start with small steps, such as asserting your need to be listened to even when you say something that might make someone you care about uncomfortable- or to pause when someone is giving you new information that might make you feel defensive. The energy of rediscovery is calling to you to deepen your trust.
What is it your heart truly desires? What do you perceive is missing in your life? In order to find the answers, you must look inside your heart. You already know this but have been reluctant to look because a part of you fears what your heart is trying to tell you. The only way forward is to face your fear. Something in your life is not working out as you would have liked and it’s not going to get any better unless you have the courage to face it.
Each time we are hurt and allow the hurt to pass through us without understanding and integration we accumulate an unwanted burden. This keeps us chained to the very thing we need to heal: the pain, the memories, the echoes of resentments, and the arguments that we rehearse over and over. Now is the time for mending rifts, healing wounds, and letting go of the old hurts in order to reclaim your power. Now is the time to forgive, to release, to make peace, and to make amends to others. Set yourself free.
The story of a relationship may change over time as you come to recognize and accept your role in the dynamic. Be brave and acknowledge your mistakes but also the remarkable work you have done to learn from them and heal your past. Reframing what happened can help you move forward with greater wisdom and strength. If you are seeking a relationship think about the story you have written about why you haven’t yet found the partnership you yearn for, have you focused only on your shortcomings or challenges and forgotten your strengths and all that you have one right? Now is the time to reconsider your story so you can write the best one for you.
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