“There are 12 Laws of Karma. The Tenth Law is the Law of Change. It states that if you want change, it must start inside yourself. If you are unhappy with something or someone in your life, only ending a relationship with them will not solve the problem. They will just show up again in your life with a different name and a different face. Do you know a person who goes from one bad relationship to another? Are you that person? Remember, the outside world is just a mirror. To have change occur, it must begin with you. ” Doe Zantamata

 

 

“Rebuilding trust when it’s been broken is not dependent only on the person who has broken it, or how many times they can prove they are honest. It depends on the person who has decided not to trust anymore. Though they may be totally justified in their decision not to trust, as long as they choose not to, the relationship has no hope of survival and should be ended. If or when they decide to trust again, there is hope reborn. ” Doe Zantamata

 

 

 

“Be patient but persistent in building or rebuilding your self-worth. The path to self-worth can only be reached when you love and accept yourself. Not only “when you’re perfect,” but right now, today, exactly as you are. Accepting yourself will not mean you will lose the drive to become better. It is the opposite. You have to believe in someone to believe they can become more than who they appear to be today. Otherwise, it would seem like a waste of effort.” Doe Zantamata

 

 

 

“Becoming used to or numb to repeated emotional pain doesn’t relieve it. It just makes you believe that life was meant to be barely tolerable. That’s no way to live. Always believe life is a beautiful gift. If your surroundings don’t support that, don’t tolerate them for one second more than you absolutely have to. “Doe Zantamata