I am reblogging this from an earlier blog post because the issue has not really changed .

What kind of relationship is a twin flame/ twin soul relationship? Is it a spiritual relationship or a physical relationship? Scenario: You meet the most remarkable person, there is instant bonding… Then nothing, the other person pulls back, pull away. You keep trying to find a way to reconnect. Unfortunately, all of your efforts are directed at the physical body. Are you surprised when it doesn’t work? Yes, you are. Do you know why it doesn’t work? Here is where the real trouble begins… Those who say it shouldn’t be. Those who tell you that you are obsessing and those who have absolutely no clue but are full of suggestions. Well here is a very simple answer the original moments, days weeks, or even months of bonding were caused by a simple soul to soul connection. This connection is really what the relationship is all about. To find that wonderful bond again you must find the soul to soul connection again.  Unless you have made the acquaintance of your own soul you are going to have a bit of difficulty getting to know his/her soul.  It is this that makes the twin flame/twin soul relationship difficult for many. It requires you to focus on your spiritual well-being in order to manifest the physical, spiritual bonding that brought you so much joy. Are you willing to do the work and get to know your own soul so you can have the relationship of your dreams? That is what makes a twin flame/twin soul relationship both special and difficult… It forces you to be the best being you can be and that requires you to get to know your soul and its true purpose usually a purpose that you share with your twin flame/twin soul. It really and truly is a soul-based relationship.