Easy Relationships

Roller Coaster Ride Relationships could it be a twin flame relationship

I find that many people who are involved with their Twin Flames/Twin Souls grow “tired” of the roller coaster ride that the relationship sometimes takes. They abandon it long before they understand why it is a roller coaster ride. On many levels they know the relationship is different it zings them in the heart and the soul. But past that they expect it to take the same pattern and shape as every other relationship they have had. What would be the purpose of that? A twin flame/twin soul relationship requires us to dig deep within our inner being and bring forth the very soul from which this relationship was created. If we refuse to do that then the roller coaster ride becomes unbearable. This is when we begin to seek an easier relationship. One that does not require so much of us. That is okay if it is truly what you want. To me it is the difference between a salt less saltine cracker and a Ritz cracker. Yes your palate may be happy with the blandness for a short while, but for a life time? Even though the relationship does not require as much of us. Does it give us what we need? Or does comfortable bland become uncomfortable nothing. At which point we reverse engines and try to put passion, emotions and fire into the relationship. Either way you are going to work at the relationship unfortunately putting fire and passion into something that had none in the beginning may prove to be harder than learning how to manage the roller coaster ride which does mellow out but never becomes stagnant. So is there really an “easy” relationship?

Seeking Your Twin Flame

Looking for your Twin Flame  or Twin Soul?

So you are seeking your twin flame or twin soul? You are not having a lot of luck finding that elusive relationship.
You have met lots of people who might work. They turn out to be not at all what they initially seem or they want something different from what you think a twin flame or twin soul relationship should be. You met someone whose energy zinged with yours or so it seemed but there were other problems with this person. They could not possibly be your twin flame or twin soul they were just too different from what you expected.
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Here is what you may be doing wrong:
1] You may not be seeking from a spiritual place within your self. You may think that you are but chances are that you started there but drifted away from it.

2] You are allowing your physical ideas and ideals of who this person should be override the spiritual connection that indicates the true twin flame/twin soul relationship.

3] You are most likely taking advice about what to expect from sources that do not have a twin flame or twin soul.

4] You may expect the relationship to follow the same patterns of every relationship you have had in the past.

5] You have actually found the twin flame/twin soul but is in denial because of a myriad of differences that would make a none spiritual/soul based relationship fail. So you are not giving it a chance but off seeking the ideal person again.

6] You have not realized that ideal physical attributes [looks, race, age, income, career, etc…] does not necessarily go with a twin flame/twin soul relationship. And that a deep and abiding love is possible even if the ideal physical attributes are not all present.

Manifesting Your Relationship

When you think of your Twin Flame relationship do you think of it being something that will occur in the future or do you think of it as happening right now? Manifesting anything requires that we believe that we have a right to it and visualizing that it is here now in our lives. Manifesting require us to focus in the present in a positive way.

Manifesting a loving Twin Flame Relationship requires that you believe that you deserve to be part of this special relationship. Believe in yourself, love yourself, it is okay to recognize that you are special and have experienced something unique and different from your friends and family.

Our twin flames mirror us in many ways how do you expect him/her to love you if you do not love you? Look within do you love yourself, do you even like who you are, are you happy with the person you see in the mirror or are you always finding fault with him/her? Believing in your self and loving yourself gives of a very different energy from the person who is constantly down on themselves and negative about who they are.

Manifesting love like all things start within. It starts with your thoughts and what you truly believe about yourself. The power of positive thinking began within you, when you find yourself doubting your right to have a special loving relationship you are still manifesting. If you must manifest something for your life make it positive not in a narcissistic way but in a I AM THAT I AM way. You are special and you deserve a special loving relationship when you believe that so will your Twin Flame/ Twin Soul.Many people say Twin Flame/ Twin Soul relationships are difficult. They are difficult because to have such a relationship one must fight the hardest battle of all that is the battle of self. One must manifest personal changes in their beliefs about themselves about their I AM presence and about the “limits and boundaries” they have allowed to control their lives. All created by their thoughts and beliefs.
There are many outside negative influences that make the relationship difficult but the ones that must really be overcome first and foremost are the ones within.

What we believe and what we think is what we manifest in our lives, our relationships, career. finances etc… Isn’t it time you took a more positive approach to your Twin Flame/Twin Soul relationship, to yourself and all aspects of your life?


Lady Dyanna’s book Forever Twin Flames and Twin Souls A Guide for Soul Based Relationships offer insight into how to address the positive approach to soul based relationships. It teaches you how to use affirmations to focus positive intent and thoughts into your life.

The Power of Vision

Last month I bought an S-Type Sapphire Blue Limited Edition Jaguar. Now besides it being a nice car, I’m thrilled to tell you how I acquired it. Vision!

Yes, I’ve been thinking of buying the Jaguar for about two years. In fact, I have a folder in my computer labeled Project Freedom and Discovery, a sub-folder called The Golden Pages. My visions made a reality that clearly reads, I own a S-Type Jaguar. I believe I made that declaration in 2002. Well, the car has been manifested in reality. It is in my driveway right now!

Many of us have heard of “The Secret” by now, maybe even getting tired of hearing about it or wondering if it works. Some are sure that it does, while others want to believe it works. They keep watching it over and over but it’s those moments when things just don’t happen fast enough that one questions it.

Unfortunately, it is the questioning of anything you dream that could make it not work. You might question “The Secret” which in turn actually makes the power of attraction concept very accurately stated, what you think about you bring about. If you doubt it works, then it doesn’t.

I’ve always believed that the things you think you can achieve, you can and will manifest and I’ve been pretty adamant about it. I never questioned whether I would own theJaguar. Never! If anything, the question was when?. When would be the right time to purchase it?

Many of my own successes and failures have come from the mere fact that I only THOUGHT of it in the beginning. The miracles that people in my circle come to wonder about happened because I was willing to think about it, visualize it and go for it.

The irony of it all is some people used to say to me, this doesn’t make sense, I don’t understand you or the all time favorite, you talk funny and communicate weird. Some rebelled against me and what I was teaching. Some said some pretty nasty things yet somewhere within their heart, they knew it worked. Where are they now! I wonder? Some are doing the work and manifesting dreams, while others are trying to get out of quicksand.

Where are you in making your dreams a reality, in quicksand or manifesting? Either way, life presents us with opportunities to move forward or take a step back. In each moment, we have that choice and we have the choice to take it or leave it.


As founder and president of The Power, Passion & Purpose Group, Lisa Thomas brings over twenty years experience in business, relationship and individual life coaching. Join the P3groups mailing list to receive our online magazine – The P3 Power Boost Magazine for Women at http://www.TheP3Group.com