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KATE RAE: “10 Things to Understand Before You Fall In Love With An Old Soul” — Circle of the Dolphins

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“And then there are really old souls such as myself, who aren’t even impressed with their own Twin Flame… as in, yawn… ‘see ya on the other side’…” ~Ascension Avatar by Kate Rae, ThoughtCatalog Simplicity. It’s the simple things in life that capture us. Simple living and simple pleasures in life ground us and make us feel all […]

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Guest Post:Get to know “you” to truly know your twin soul

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Developing the relationship with your true self requires you to focus within. For those who are a twin soul, focusing on your own inner being is to focus on him or her.

Some clients that I work with who are in twin soul relationships often come  at the relationship with their focus solely on the other half of their soul – reaching out for their twin soul rather than going within and searching for their own inner being. They put all their focus on their twin soul without acknowledging their own true self.

Truth is your twin soul shares the same soul as you, but you can’t have any kind of relationship with the other half of yourself without acknowledging and accepting yourself and who you truly are.

You can’t know the other half of your soul without knowing who you are. He or she is looking for your inner being when you reach out. Anyone who has concerns about their twin soul not “communicating”, may want to check if they are “communicating” with their own inner being and more to the point being their true self or not.

You have to put your all in to your inner being and being your true self to have a successful relationship with your twin soul. When you open yourself up to your true self, you are simultaneously opening yourself up to your twin soul. The more you release anything and everything that does not belong to your inner being, you open yourself up to your own true self. And when you fix your relationship with your true self and accept and acknowledge who you truly are, the relationship that belongs to your inner being falls into place just like that.

For those who are in a twin soul relationship and wondering why it is not working, take a look not at the other half of your soul but at yourself. Reach within and get to know who you are, that is your true self. Do the work on yourself to have that flawless connection to your twin soul, but most importantly to have that flawless connection with your true self, for he/she is you and you are he/she. You work on both of you just by  focusing on your inner being, your true self.

When you have a solid relationship with your inner being, you have a solid relationship with your twin soul. When you communicate with your inner being, you are effectively communicating with your twin soul too.

When you are working on developing your relationship with your own inner being, reach out to the other half of your soul. Let him or her know that you desire them to be involved in every aspect of your life. He will offer you the “male perspective” of yourself, and you, the “female perspective” of himself. Or she will offer you the “female perspective” of yourself, and you, the “male perspective” of herself. Whatever you are doing throughout the day, while you are being guided by your inner being, reach out to your twin soul and get them involved and get their opinion on everything – anything from what to wear, what to watch, and what to eat – as well as finding out what they need from you.

Having this strength of connection to your own inner being as well as your twin soul’s inner being on a spiritual level, makes for a much smoother relationship with he/she in the physical. That way you have soul to soul at the forefront at all times.

What can be harder than being in a relationship with the other half of you. For many it’s a major issue because they have to work on them self, get to know them self and that for many people, can be difficult because many have an awkward relationship with them self. But if you know who you are, your true self inside-out, a twin soul relationship is a smooth relationship, for you are one and the same. So get to know your self and do the work on your self, and recognise how blessed you are to be in such a unique relationship.

Love and honour your true self and your twin soul will love and honour their true self. What’s more just as you come into loving and honouring your true self, you come into loving and honouring your twin soul, therefore he/she comes into loving and honouring you, his or her twin soul. So start doing the work on you and start loving and respecting you, so you can have the love of your life and he or she can have the love of their life, you.

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Twin Flame Relationships are spiritual based unions

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Did you know that the basic of a twin flame relationship is usually spiritual and karmic. It is the continuation of a relationship begun long before the physical bodies existed. The awareness of your twin flame often time comes before the “emotional love”. But we have been programmed to look for the physical and the emotional connections in a person before we seek the “true” connection. If you are basing your twin flame experience on a human love experience, compatible personalities and astrology or other outer indications, it is important to know that these point more to soul mate relationships than to twin flame relationships.  Such indicators do provide proof of compatibility but they do not confirm the depth of the soul connection that indicates a twin flame relationship. Sometimes the difference in the physical lives of twin flames automatically cause the minds to shut out the possibility of there ever being a “love relationship”. These differences can be age, race, religion, or even that the partners are involved in other relationships. If the souls can achieve their work without the “love” relationship then they will. However I have noticed more and more that  is not the case.

The issue are more that one person has a “fixed” idea of their perfect match on the physical level and is unwilling to seek beneath that for a partner that is their perfect match on a soul level. Hence they meet their twin flame and enjoy a brief time where everything between them click. The souls recognize each other and reach out to each other but the bodies after that period of blissful compatibility begin trying to force the relationship to conform to “requirements that they use to make soul mate relationships work. This usually cause much discomfort and a pulling away on the physical. It is helpful to understand that the things that we need to prop up a physical relationship between soul mate is not “necessary” in a twin flame relationship. As the connection between the souls cover those needs on an intense internal level. The problem is that we are so accustomed to other types of relationships that we ignore the sense of well being and forge ahead trying to force the relationship to fit an “accepted” pattern in our minds.

Hold up before you pick up that cell phone

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A twin soul relationship is a sacred one, which contrary to “belief” has very little to do with the physical.
What I mean by that is that even though twin souls inhabit physical bodies, the relationship is one between the souls and that is the souls or inner beings guiding their physical bodies. It’s never about the physical.
Your relationship with your inner being is a spiritual one. Therefore, your inner being is guiding your every move. For those who have a twin soul, the soul always calls the shots because if the bodies let go of their inner beings’ reins, so to speak, body’s out there on there own making some fumbling, bumbling electric boogaloo moves at that point.
Here’s one scenario, body minus the soul goes off to text her twin soul, because she “picked up” on something that informed her to text her other half. But body didn’t check-in with her inner being to confirm it was coming from her inner being. No, it was a not so subtle “external” voice telling her to go ahead. Body stepped out of her inner being’s energy to grab her cell phone and text her twin soul, only to be greeted by a moody twit whose off-key response wasn’t his soul’s.
Truth is twin souls don’t do anything without the guidance of their soul, because it means that not only is moody twit being slapped and tickled by the nearby chaos at that point, it also means his nearest and dearest isn’t in the control seat. Both bodies have leapt to the forefront leaving their inner beings at home stomping their feet and clicking their fingers to usher bumbling bodies to get back to their seats.
Twin souls always operate in the spiritual 24/7 365. The preferred communications always take place on the spiritual and psychic planes. Even when you are married and settled with your twin soul, the communications are still on a soul-to-soul level. Meaning even though you are sitting down next to your twin soul and having a polite conversation with him in the physical, the deeper and more meaningful conversation is taking place on the spiritual, often simultaneously. Physical communications are just an add-on, if it were.
So rule of thumb, if you want pleasant communications between you and your twin soul, make sure your inner being is guiding that conversation otherwise when bumbling bodies minus the soul come together, all the bodies are capable of at that point is a game of bumper cars, quite literally. A collision that the souls are looking on in shame. It’s like wearing L-plates for eternity when the bodies attempt to take charge of the relationship that belongs to their inner beings.
In a twin soul relationship, it’s a bit like following “The Green Cross Code” when it comes to communications. For those not familiar with The Green Cross Code, it’s taught in schools in the UK to raise awareness of road safety. It goes like this:
1. First find the safest place to cross
2. Stop just before you get to the kerb
3. Look all around for traffic and listen
4. If traffic is coming, let it pass
5. When it is safe, go straight across the road, do not run
The same rules can be applied to communications with your twin soul in the physical. “The Twin Soul Cross Code” goes a little something like this:
1. First check the “urge” to call your twin soul is coming from your inner being
2. Stop just before you pick up your cell phone
3. Look towards your inner being and listen
4. If your inner being is not giving you the nudge, let it pass
5. If your inner being confirms to send a text to your twin soul, pick up your cell phone and text, remember be in the here and now

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