I am reblogging this from an earlier blog post because the issue has not really changed .

What kind of relationship is a twin flame/ twin soul relationship? Is it a spiritual relationship or a physical relationship? Scenario: You meet the most remarkable person, there is instant bonding… Then nothing, the other person pulls back, pull away. You keep trying to find a way to reconnect. Unfortunately, all of your efforts are directed at the physical body. Are you surprised when it doesn’t work? Yes, you are. Do you know why it doesn’t work? Here is where the real trouble begins… Those who say it shouldn’t be. Those who tell you that you are obsessing and those who have absolutely no clue but are full of suggestions. Well here is a very simple answer the original moments, days weeks, or even months of bonding were caused by a simple soul to soul connection. This connection is really what the relationship is all about. To find that wonderful bond again you must find the soul to soul connection again. Unless you have made the acquaintance of your own soul you are going to have a bit of difficulty getting to know his/her soul. It is this that makes the twin flame/twin soul relationship difficult for many. It requires you to focus on your spiritual well-being in order to manifest the physical, spiritual bonding that brought you so much joy. Are you willing to do the work and get to know your own soul so you can have the relationship of your dreams? That is what makes a twin flame/twin soul relationship both special and difficult… It forces you to be the best being you can be and that requires you to get to know your soul and its true purpose usually a purpose that you share with your twin flame/twin soul. It really and truly is a soul-based relationship.

The Reality You Create

Posted on March 21, 2021March 19, 2021 by Dyanna

“Reality is what we take to be true. What we take to be true is what we believe. What we believe is based upon our perceptions. What we perceive depends upon what we look for. What we look for depends upon what we think. What we think depends upon what we perceive. What we perceive determines what we believe. What we believe determines what we take to be true. What we take to be true is our reality.” ~ Gary Zukav

If you perceive separation, no matter who is with you, no matter how many you have around you, you will still feel separation because that is the reality you are creating.

I listen to you as you say you have no friends, you are alone, you are isolated. I listen again when you interact with people you still comment on the isolation. I ask you is it your perception because there are not people around you all the time that you are isolated? When you look at your physical world and do not have a full social calendar does that indicate isolation and being alone?

When you meditate and walk with your higher mind, twin soul, and bond mates do you still perceive yourself to be alone? When you journey spiritually with your higher mind do you perceive yourself to be alone? If the answer is no, then why when meditation is over you return to the perception of being alone? Your higher mind, your twin soul, and your bandmates are still present when you return they are not just part of your spiritual journey they are part of your physical journey too. They remain with you unless you persist in perceiving a separation that happens in your thoughts when the meditation is over. When you choose to change your perception about being alone, being isolated, being separate your reality will also change. You control your reality with what you believe. You believe you are separate from your higher mind and soul and so you create that separation in spite of the first statement/affirmation that you received when you started working with me. ” I am one with my soul” “I am one with my higher mind”. Your perception of separation in your spiritual life becomes your reality in your physical life. Such is the real world, what you believe about yourself and your existence becomes your reality.

Soul Mates, Twin Souls are already with you

Posted on March 7, 2021March 6, 2021 by Dyanna

Your soul mate or twin soul is already with you in spirit. believe this and they will manifest physically.

So much of the time our focus is drawn to the physical. We meet someone and we can remember the details of that person, the color of their eyes, the color of their hair, the nuances of their mannerism but are you aware of their soul? I know that first appearances matter but is that the first physical appearance or the first spiritual appearance. Are you so aware of the physical appearance that you miss the spiritual appearance? You want your soul mate or your twin soul in your life but when they show up if they are not in the package that you expect do you dismiss them?

Believe that your twin soul or soul mate is already part of your life, this has nothing to do with how they will look in the physical. This is about how you will recognize the energy that you have acknowledged in your life daily. Understanding that your soul mate or twin soul has a strong connection to your soul, that they are energetically part of your soul. Believe that they are always with you, acknowledge the energy of your own soul, so when you meet the person whose energy resonates with your soul you will be ready to acknowledge that you have indeed connected with your soul mate or twin soul. Be aware of the energy of the soul before you focus on the physical appearance of the body. Your soul and twin soul are unlikely to bring you someone who is physically abhorrent to you. However, if you base your relationship requirements on physical appearances of beauty and age per the accepted norm you may meet your twin soul or life mate and dismiss them because they do not meet the accepted norms of beauty or masculine attractiveness. This will leave you in seeking mode and open you to chaos playing games with you by putting someone you have had a crush on or someone you consider handsome or beautiful in your path and convince you that in this package is the spiritual partner you are seeking.

Your twin soul, lifemate, or soul mate will not enter a physical form just because its appearance pleases you. There is more required in a physical form than looks for the soul to be attracted to them. In fact, the attraction always begins between the souls, the body may just be friends and that too is okay. But if you believe your twin soul or soul mate is always with you then you will definitely recognize them when they take a physical form no matter what that forms look like. It is up to you to choose the spiritual connection that you have been seeking, or wait for that connection to show up in a younger, older, prettier, more handsome package. I am not saying that you can not have it all just that part of the challenge of the relationship is that it will take you outside of your comfort zone it will challenge you to look beyond the physical. If you can not do that then perhaps you are not yet ready to venture down the path of spiritual relationships just yet.

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Healing a Relationship Pattern Exercise — AWAKENING THE SOUL

Posted on August 28, 2019 by Dyanna

Re-visit and feel relationship patterns by initially focusing on the heart chakra. Bring your focus into the heart and just feel the feelings you had when you experienced the particular relationship pattern without any thought. Breathe into the heart space and disconnect from the mind chatter and don’t try to analyse the feelings. The […]

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