“And then there are really old souls such as myself, who aren’t even impressed with their own Twin Flame… as in, yawn… ‘see ya on the other side’…” ~Ascension Avatar by Kate Rae, ThoughtCatalog Simplicity. It’s the simple things in life that capture us. Simple living and simple pleasures in life ground us and make us feel all […]
Did you know that the basic of a twin flame relationship is usually spiritual and karmic. It is the continuation of a relationship begun long before the physical bodies existed. The awareness of your twin flame often time comes before the “emotional love”. But we have been programmed to look for the physical and the emotional connections in a person before we seek the “true” connection. If you are basing your twin flame experience on a human love experience, compatible personalities and astrology or other outer indications, it is important to know that these point more to soul mate relationships than to twin flame relationships. Such indicators do provide proof of compatibility but they do not confirm the depth of the soul connection that indicates a twin flame relationship. Sometimes the difference in the physical lives of twin flames automatically cause the minds to shut out the possibility of there ever being a “love relationship”. These differences can be age, race, religion, or even that the partners are involved in other relationships. If the souls can achieve their work without the “love” relationship then they will. However I have noticed more and more that is not the case.
The issue are more that one person has a “fixed” idea of their perfect match on the physical level and is unwilling to seek beneath that for a partner that is their perfect match on a soul level. Hence they meet their twin flame and enjoy a brief time where everything between them click. The souls recognize each other and reach out to each other but the bodies after that period of blissful compatibility begin trying to force the relationship to conform to “requirements that they use to make soul mate relationships work. This usually cause much discomfort and a pulling away on the physical. It is helpful to understand that the things that we need to prop up a physical relationship between soul mate is not “necessary” in a twin flame relationship. As the connection between the souls cover those needs on an intense internal level. The problem is that we are so accustomed to other types of relationships that we ignore the sense of well being and forge ahead trying to force the relationship to fit an “accepted” pattern in our minds.
While working with twin souls and doing spiritual life coaching one theme has continuously presented it self. I find that people believe that they can create the life they desire without their true self participating. If you leave your true self out of your life there will always be something missing, Something just our of reach, It is not possible to compartmentalize your life without some parts of it suffering. By first understanding and choosing to engage your true self in all aspects of your life you are able to get a better understanding of the direction your life needs to take for your ultimate fulfillment. If you are attempting to manifest a twin soul relationship into the physical it is important to first engage with your true self so that you have the benefit of the intuition, perception and awareness of the true self. It is why I have always stated that meeting your twin soul is meant to be the beginning of a relationship between you and your true self. Without that relationship between you and your true self your twin soul relationship tend to struggle. That is because it is hampered by how we perceive things, by facades and illusions interfering. The stronger your relationship with your true self the stronger your relationship with your twin soul. You are able to see past the facades, illusions, and the chaos that is normally present when a twin soul union attempts to manifest physically. With that thought in mind how is your relationship with your true self? Not sure, look at your relationship with your twin soul. Is your relationship with your twin soul progressing as you desire it? What would you like to change in it? Now look again at how you engage with your true self. Twin souls relationships do mirror each other. Your relationship with your true self and with your twin soul mirror each other. Are you trying to make the relationship work without your true self?
As Litha/Summer Solstice approach I am reminded that it is a time that in the past was used to do healing, and protection for family and those things important to the well being of the family. As this Litha approach I would suggest that we look to emotional healing and protection on a personal level . Healing feelings and emotions is as important as healing the physical body. I have noticed that in twin flame relationships the emotions and feeling take quite a beating as the couple attempts to work out their relationship. That beating is not just from the misunderstanding and mis directions that the couple endure with each other it seems that family and friends are all to willing to contribute. This Litha celebrate the turning of the season with a bit of emotional healing and protection for your self. Start with the awareness that a twin soul relationship stem from one soul being divided into it’s male and female components and instead of working together energetically as is normal they must work through two individual physical forms. When those forms deny their oneness the emotional struggle begins. This Litha try to see the oneness in spite of everything. Try for a renewal of your relationship on the spiritual level where the souls are one and no harsh or hurtful things have been said or done. You may use meditation to reach that place, first invite your true self to join you and renew your aquaintance with her/him when you are satisfied with your communication with your true self ask if there is an irrepariable breach in the union between her/him and their other half. Invite the other half to join you in meditation, witness that union, that connection between the two halves of the soul. From that grasp what your physical union will look and feel like. Ask them both for help with the emotional healing that must take place within you. As you understand that on the spiritual level there is no seperation between the souls, it is only in the mind that they are seperated and in that the emotional upheaval take place, you will begin the your emotional healing. Now before you leave meditation ask for the key to protect that awareness. When dealing with your twin flame in the physical it is always acceptable to reach out to his/her true self and let them know that you remember there is no seperation. Remeber what we hold in our minds as true we create in our physical reality. So take this Litha, the longest day in the year and change your reality. The emotional healing reminds you that there is one soul two physical forms, the souls are never angry or unhappy with each other. That would be much like you being angry with half of your body. When you do something that cause you an issues you do not remain angry with yourself hopefully. You forgive your self and work with the issue. When you deal with your Twin flame it is much the same as working with your self.
