“Others will treat you exactly as you treat yourself. Once you love yourself, you will not be able to tolerate poor treatment. You will be able to see that although they may call it love, it’s actually something else. “Do unto others as you’d have done to you” also means “do unto yourself as you would do to others.” If someone is treating you poorly, just don’t allow it. You would not do that to someone else. If they continue, remove yourself from that relationship. They may not even be capable of treating others well, but that you can’t fix. ” Doe Zantamata
Category: relationship guidance
Weekly Relationship Awareness May 9, 2022 – May 15, 2022, by Lady Dyanna
“Conserving energy is a good thing. But this is also why belief is the root of all positive change. Unless you believe something better is possible, it makes no sense to devote the energy or effort into making it happen. So all those other things, determination, perseverance, courage….they can’t do their jobs until their leader, belief, steps upfront and center. Before you do anything, set your foundation firm in the belief that great things are very possible and that you are more than able to make them so. ” Doe Zantamata
Weekly Relationship Awareness May 2, 2022 – May 8, 2022, by Lady Dyanna
“Set your heart free. Trust it. It knows the way. The way is always detached, secure, and out of love. Detachment doesn’t mean coldness, it means freedom. Security doesn’t mean rules or checking up on people, it means confidence and trust. Love doesn’t mean clinging or desperation, it means appreciation, encouragement, and peace within. ” Doe Zantamata
Weekly Relationship Awareness April 25, 2022 – May 1, 2022, by Lady Dyanna
Examine what is causing you to feel the way you are feeling.
No matter what it is you are feeling it is time to be aware of the source of your feelings. It is easy to look at someone or something and blame it for your feelings but there is a problem with that. If it is someone else’s fault that you are feeling a certain way then you can not fix it.
Weekly Relationship Awareness April 18, 2022 – April 24, 2022, by Lady Dyanna
Transformation occurs through acceptance. Once you accept the current situation, it will automatically transform. Your partner has decided that they just want to be friends. That is okay accept that the relationship has changed. Shift your focus to your life and what you desire in your life. Be a friend. Offer nothing more than the friendship they requested. The situation will change quicker by accepting than if you fight to convince them that you belong together, and they are making a big mistake. Sometimes stepping back helps to clarify things for both of you.