“There’s a big difference between “focusing on negative things” and “ignoring something that needs some attention for it to be resolved.” Always remember the teaching mantra, “what you allow, you encourage.”  Doe Zantamata 

“Love is natural. When we do not act out of love, it goes against our very nature. That choice results in emotional, mental, and even physical pain. Love heals the pain that was caused by the absence of it. Always act out of love. ” Doe Zantamata 

“No matter how long it takes, true love is always worth the wait. If you are with someone just to be with someone, then you won’t be available when the right someone comes along. Fear of being alone is a subconscious fear that you alone are not whole, not enough, not love in and of yourself. That energy will come across as desperation and will lead to a relationship with someone either very needy or very controlling. Neither of those are love. Feeling whole and complete alone but being open to a loving relationship will be the exact right energy to begin and foster a beautiful connection. And no matter if it happens early in life or later in life, nothing will be missed and no time wasted. Certain qualities take time to develop, cannot be rushed, and can only be appreciated once they become complete. ”
Doe Zantamata

“Set your heart free. Trust it. It knows the way. The way is always detached, secure, and out of love. Detachment doesn’t mean coldness, it means freedom. Security doesn’t mean rules or checking up on people, it means confidence and trust. Love doesn’t mean clinging or desperation, it means appreciation, encouragement, and peace within. “Doe Zantamata

“Love means, “I accept you as you are, exactly as you are. It does not mean that you are perfect, but it does mean that every single thing about you is 100% acceptable. Many things are even more than just acceptable, they are wonderful! But there is absolutely nothing you need to change in order to become loveable.” The moment you believe these things about yourself, you have found true love. You are then open to share it with another person who feels the same way. “Doe Zantamata