“Love is natural. When we do not act out of love, it goes against our very nature. That choice results in emotional, mental, and even physical pain. Love heals the pain that was caused by the absence of it. Always act out of love. “Doe Zantamata
Intuitive Reader Specializing in Love and Spiritual Relationships
“If someone doesn’t accept you now, it’s likely they won’t accept you later, either. Don’t change for anyone. Even if you change everything they’ve complained about, they’ll just make up a new list of things for you to work on. Having a discussion and being honest with each other can do more than just salvage a relationship, it can save it. What is it that you don’t like about each other? Be open. Can you each accept those things even if you’d prefer them to be different? If the answer is no, then realize that it will be a repeating argument. Even if people make promises to change and even if they really want to, it still takes time. No sense both of you being unhappy in the meantime about things that may or may not ever change. That “meantime” could be a whole lifetime away.”Doe Zantamata
Intuitive Reader Specializing in Love and Spiritual Relationships
“Everything in the world has a natural ebb and flow. The tides move out but flow in again. While the flow is much more comfortable, the ebb has great meaning. When time and resources are stripped away, you can see clearly what and who truly matters to you and who you matter to in return. When your flow returns, you’ll know exactly with who and where your time will be best spent, with a brand new appreciation for it all. “Doe Zantamata
Intuitive Reader Specializing in Love and Spiritual Relationships
“Someone else’s insecurity and mistrust are the roots of big-time drama. You can expect to spend a lot of time explaining, justifying, coddling, and walking on eggshells if you choose to be close to someone who struggles with those things. With your best efforts and patience, you may be able to help them some, but only they can fix themselves. If it’s turning you into a nervous wreck then even though you’d love to help, you may have to set that ideal down and take care of yourself by creating some distance. It just may be that distance becomes the signal to them that they need to change if they want to keep a great person around. “Doe Zantamata
Intuitive Reader Specializing in Love and Spiritual Relationships
“Trust is as necessary to a happy, healthy relationship as air is to the lungs. With it, a relationship can survive almost anything. Without it, almost nothing. Living in a world without trust is truly painful. When a person says, “trust is something that needs to be earned,” it’s a big sign that this person’s trust was broken one too many times, and they got fed up. Without trust, stories are invented, and drama flows freely. With trust, a person can take people’s word at face value, not read into things negatively, and just be happier. It was not up to you to be lied to, but it is up to you to trust again. ” Doe Zantamata
Intuitive Reader Specializing in Love and Spiritual Relationships