Transformation occurs through acceptance. Once you accept the current situation, it will automatically transform. Your partner has decided that they just want to be friends. That is okay accept that the relationship has changed. Shift your focus to your life and what you desire in your life. Be a friend. Offer nothing more than the friendship they requested. The situation will change quicker by accepting than if you fight to convince them that you belong together, and they are making a big mistake. Sometimes stepping back helps to clarify things for both of you.

Though we may be physically apart, spiritually we are always united, for love transcends space and time. Nothing is missing.
It is the connection between the spiritual beings that hold the relationship together. Even when the one who holds your heart is not physically present the love is still strong when you are aware of each other both on a spiritual level as well as a physical level.

“You cannot convince someone to see something that they do not want to see, or just cannot see, no matter how much you know it would improve their life. You have to love and accept them exactly as they are today. If you cannot do that, you have to let them go and find their own way, in their own time, if they ever choose to do so. Otherwise, you’ll be giving them the power over your happiness, too. “

 

Criticizing one another will only lead to further unhappiness. Love and accept each other as you are and your relationship will magically transform.
If you do not love your partner enough to accept them as they are then it is time to think about moving on. We can not change anyone if you entered into a relationship with the belief that you can change the person you are in for a rude awakening. Permanent change only occurs if the person desires to change. Insisting that someone changes to remain in a relationship makes for a very tense situation and if they do not genuinely wish to change it can add trust issues to an already unpleasant situation.

Don’t make decisions based on guilt or what you think you should do, for it is only in being true to yourself that you can be true to others.

If there is something happening in your relationship that you do not like speak with your partner about it now. The longer you wait the harder it will be to deal with. If you wait and bring it up when you are angry or unsettled it will be looked at as if you are only speaking about it because you are angry. When you first notice an issue that is unsettling that is when you address it.