“Every thought, every spoken word, every action sets a process in motion. We control what we send out, but not the results or consequences that follow. Good intentions set forth with the goal to destroy a perceived wrong will cause destruction in their wake. Good intentions set forth in love will yield good results, eventually. Be conscious of method even when certain of good intentions. “Doe Zantamata

 

 

“Your mind wants to be right, but your soul wants the truth. This is why you should never discuss conflicting ideas in anger or sadness. Anger and sadness are emotions of the mind. When faced with the truth that your soul recognizes, you will feel it in your heart, but with the anger or sadness, your mind will force you to keep arguing, find something else to be right about, or deny being wrong. This prevents the truth and peace from returning. ” Doe Zantamata

 

 

“Love heals” isn’t just a wishful thought. Love literally heals a broken heart, dashed hopes, and shattered faith. It gives rise to new dreams out of old ones that were not fulfilled. It sees the importance of the individual, of the moment, and also of the bigger picture at the very same time. It brings peace to tragedy and calm to chaos. It does not erase the hurt, but it always makes it better than it could ever possibly be without it. ” Doe Zantamata

 

 

“Looking for love can feel like searching for a missing piece of your heart. You will keep looking for that one special person who will complete you, until you finally realize that person is you. It’s better to share a full heart with another person, rather than one that has a piece missing that they can never fill. Decide that your goal is to love your whole life. Look at what’s preventing that from being true and what already allows it. Plan for better days and work towards them. Use “yes” and “no” more and more to reflect your true feelings, not what you think everyone wants to hear. ” Doe Zantamata

 

 

“Some people think that if they always assume the best in people and their intentions, that’s “being positive,” but it’s really not. Now, it’s not good to assume the worst, either. Just don’t assume anything. Ask. Observe. Ask again. Observe again. If you only assume the best, you will eventually be disappointed when you realize that they are not who they never were. If you ask and observe, you can truly get to know them, and choose to accept them as they really are, with no false pedestals and no expectations of perfection. That’s “being positive.” In fact, that’s love. ” Doe Zantamata