“No matter how long it takes, true love is always worth the wait. If you are with someone just to be with someone, then you won’t be available when the right someone comes along. Fear of being alone is a subconscious fear that you alone are not whole, not enough, not love in and of yourself. That energy will come across as desperation and will lead to a relationship with someone either very needy or very controlling. Neither of those are love. Feeling whole and complete alone but being open to a loving relationship will be the exact right energy to begin and foster a beautiful connection. And no matter if it happens early in life or later in life, nothing will be missed and no time wasted. Certain qualities take time to develop, cannot be rushed, and can only be appreciated once they become complete. ”
Doe Zantamata

“Set your heart free. Trust it. It knows the way. The way is always detached, secure, and out of love. Detachment doesn’t mean coldness, it means freedom. Security doesn’t mean rules or checking up on people, it means confidence and trust. Love doesn’t mean clinging or desperation, it means appreciation, encouragement, and peace within. “Doe Zantamata

“Love means, “I accept you as you are, exactly as you are. It does not mean that you are perfect, but it does mean that every single thing about you is 100% acceptable. Many things are even more than just acceptable, they are wonderful! But there is absolutely nothing you need to change in order to become loveable.” The moment you believe these things about yourself, you have found true love. You are then open to share it with another person who feels the same way. “Doe Zantamata

 

“First bliss comes naturally. Second bliss is a choice. It’s the choice to trust, to love, to put yourself out there, knowing full well that you can get hurt. But you won’t be able to live, love, and experience all the joys of life if you don’t put yourself back out there again. It takes courage –a lot of courage– but it’s worth it. “Doe Zantamata

 

“If a friend stops speaking with you because they believed gossip about you without even asking you “your side,” then you didn’t really lose a friend. You only lost a person who didn’t trust or believe in you…and that’s not really a loss at all. It hurts because it feels unfair, and you would not have treated them the same way. But if that’s the choice they’ve made, you can really only accept it and let them go. Even if you convince them this time, the absence of trust will not have changed and will continue to hurt you in every future circumstance. “Doe Zantamata