“If you found out, realized, or learned something today that totally changes how you would have acted, or decisions you made in the past, don’t beat yourself up for not knowing it before. Think instead of how much your life will change from this day forward, now that you know it, and how much better and wiser your decisions will be in the future. Be grateful that you learned it today, and not ten years from now.  “Doe Zantamata