“What you impress people by is what you are impressed by in other people. If you are impressed by kindness and generosity, that means those things are in you, and you believe they are important. Those who are impressed by displays of status, power, flash, or waving money around don’t yet see the value in the qualities those actions show are lacking in that person…humility and gratitude. If a person doesn’t value your good qualities, it doesn’t mean they’re not important. They’re just not important to that person, and probably not present in them because of that. “Doe Zantamata