“Always assume that people cannot understand your perspective and feelings unless you’ve explained them to them. What is so clear from where you stand may be completely invisible from a different perspective. If you do explain and they still don’t get it or just don’t care, then it doesn’t mean you’ve wasted your time. It just means that you now know for sure that if you value being understood or considered, this won’t be a person who can do those things very well, if even at all. “Doe Zantamata