“Loving and supporting someone is not the same as loving and supporting someone’s actions if they are harming themselves or others. The first, encourages, the second, enables. It takes courage to say, “I love you, but I can’t support what you’re doing.” But that will give them incentive to change much more than hoping they’ll change ever will. Easier said than done, but better done than only wished for. ” Doe Zantamata