Connecting with your inner being

Connecting with your inner being

Working with your soul shouldn’t be that difficult and it really isn’t when you stop fretting and start living from the place of inner peace that is oneness with your soul. Yes that energetic realm that is expansive, abundant and infinite, when you allow it to happen, can easily be reached within seconds.
Living in the physical world we have grown accustomed to very physical indicators or confirmation of things based on human experiences – eg. having money to affirm our wealth or owning a house with two cars and a garden to affirm so called “happiness”. These are all very tangible things that can be gone within seconds. Oneness is yours for life in this lifetime.
We are used to having concrete things in front of our very own eyes that confirm things for us. But when it comes to working with your inner being, there is none of that. There are no goalposts as such and there is no confirmation that you are there yet other than just a state of being. If you are looking for goalposts or a visual confirmation that you are your inner being you may just be waiting a while.
On my own spiritual journey, I’ve always looked for signals that I am one with my soul and more times than my soul cares to even mention at this point, I have got there within moments only to have missed the boat and slipped back into human physical
mode again because the “conditioning” has had me believe I was waiting for some kind of “big bang” moment.
The focus was there but the wrong focus – rather than focusing on the inner peace of my inner being I was focusing on “the wham bam thank you maam” moment. But inner beings are way more subtle than that and if you pay attention to the subtle energy of your inner being, you will get there and in no time. A bit like meditating but without the wait – oneness can be as instant as you want it to be – all it takes is the focus on and the desire and intent to be in your inner peace at all times. It’s that complete state of inner peace amidst the chaotic physical world. When you know what it feels like to be in complete inner peace at all times, it makes it harder to slip out of it.
Once there you are able to intuitively live your life, but don’t be attempting to put up those goalposts or visuals because at that point, you are back in to drab old human mode. And for those with a twin soul who struggle to connect with their partner in crime on a spiritual level, don’t be attempting to stick a visual of him in your head either because you’ll quickly find out that that dude you thought was your twin soul ain’t your twin soul but some chaos-driven image of someone to keep you out of your oneness, for one, and to keep you from connecting to the other half of your soul. And besides that “image” or so called persona of your twin soul has nothing to say and, believe me, is just as mundane as some of the men you may have dated in the past 😉
Souls use all senses to help you in your awareness of their presence, after all your inner being is 100% energy. To have an awareness of your own inner being is to be aware of them on an energetic level. The same goes for your twin soul. To be aware of him on an energetic level it requires you to be aware of your own inner being, after all you both share the same soul. Focus on your own inner being and you finesse the focus on him and who he is, as there’s no difference between you both other than he’s the male half of your soul.
When you become aware of your inner being on an energetic level, there is no more guess work, you know what it is you need to do moment by moment, guided by your higher mind, and it quickly becomes second nature to be a spiritual being in a physical world as opposed to what you perceived yourself to be prior to living live with soul. It also allows for you to become acquainted with your inner being and what belongs to her, and from that point actually begin to develop your relationship with your true self – a relationship that is immune to any BS that the physical world throws at you, and one in which unconditional love, abundance, prosperity, healing and all the things you may strive for in the physical world is there for you in a heartbeat thanks to your inner being.
About the Author
Huria Choudhari is a journalist, creative warrior, intuitive counsellor and life coach. She writes about music, fashion and lifestyle for Life & Soul Magazine: Having carved her journalism career in news and current affairs, Huria is a truth seeker. Applying that very same ethic, she also offers creative coaching and intuitive counselling services to help others discover their own truth. Get in touch with Huria at or

August 26, 2015  Tags: , , , , , , ,  Posted in: Connecting with your inner being, Manifesting   Comments Closed

How is your relationship with your true self?

Your Relationship with your true self is reflected in your twin soul relationship

Your Relationship with your true self

While working with twin souls and doing spiritual life coaching one theme has continuously presented it self. I find that people believe that they can create the life they desire without their true self participating. If you leave your true self out of your life there will always be something missing, Something just our of reach, It is not possible to compartmentalize your life without some parts of it suffering. By first understanding and choosing to engage your true self in all aspects of your life you are able to get a better understanding of the direction your life needs to take for your ultimate fulfillment. If you are attempting to manifest a twin soul relationship into the physical it is important to first engage with your true self so that you have the benefit of  the intuition, perception and awareness of the true self.  It is why I have always stated that meeting your twin soul is meant to be the beginning of a relationship between you and your true self. Without that relationship between you and your true self your twin soul relationship tend to struggle. That is because it is hampered by how we perceive things, by facades and illusions interfering. The stronger your relationship with  your true self the stronger your relationship with your twin soul. You are able to see past the facades, illusions, and the chaos that is normally present when a twin soul union attempts to manifest physically. With that thought in mind how is your relationship with your true self? Not sure, look at your relationship with your twin soul. Is your relationship with your twin soul progressing as you desire it? What would you like to change in it? Now look again at how you engage with your true self. Twin souls relationships do mirror each other. Your relationship with your true self  and with your twin soul mirror each other. Are you trying to make the relationship work without your true self?

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Yule 2014

Yule 2014 Greetings and Blessing to all
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“So the shortest day came, and the year died,
And everywhere down the centuries of the snow-white world
Came people singing, dancing,
To drive the dark away.
They lighted candles in the winter trees;
They hung their homes with evergreen;
They burned beseeching fires all night long
To keep the year alive,
And when the new year’s sunshine blazed awake
They shouted, reveling.
Through all the frosty ages you can hear them
Echoing behind us – Listen!!
All the long echoes sing the same delight,
This shortest day,
As promise wakens in the sleeping land:
They carol, fest, give thanks,
And dearly love their friends,
And hope for peace.
And so do we, here, now,
This year and every year.
Welcome Yule!!”
– Susan Cooper, The Shortest Day

“The holly and the ivy, when they were both full grown,
Of all the trees that are in the wood, the holly bears the crown. . .

I am the Holly King, Lord of the Waning Year. You may know me as the Green Man or as the Winter King. I rule from Midsummer to Midwinter, and my reign culminates in the festivities of Yuletide. As the wren dies to make way for the robin, soon I will bow before my brother the Oak King. You will not see me again until the Sun once more begins to wane. As I prepare to withdraw into the deep midwinter, I contemplate the glowing light of the reborn Sun in my cup — and in this holy grail, I see visions and dreams of the year to come.
Carry a sprig of holly with you as my token. It will protect you against fierce winter storms, and will bestow upon you the focus, direction and courage you need to succeed in your own spiritual quest.
Fill your homes with holly this season! Deck the halls! My evergreen leaves and bright red berries, seen against the barren oaks of winter, will remind you of the Life that sustains us during the bitterest time of the year.”
–   The Holly King

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Commitment to your Path II

Your Commitment to your Path requires your mind, body, and soul to succeed

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I spoke of commitment to your path in a previous post. I said speak your commitment, say it out loud. However I need to add more to that information. Feel your commitment. Feel the Commitment to your Path in your heart and in your mind. Just saying it and even taking the steps is not enough.  You need to feel it in your heart and think it in your daily actions. If you commit to a path but keep looking back at what you had, or what you did, you make it very difficult to move forward on the path you have committed to. It is like a person walking backwards, they are liable to stumble and fall many times because their head[mind] is not in what they are doing. Looking backwards means you can not see the way forward. If you can not see the way forward then you can not  fully commit to the path you are on because you really can not see it unfolding in front of you, this causes doubt and fear to keep popping up.  Your verbal commitment to your path should help solidify that path in your mind and keep you focused. However if you do the verbal and still look back at the past with longing then you are not fully committed to your path. If you are not fully committed to your path even a path with little to no bumps will be difficult. A spiritual journey without full commitment to the path that you are on will be more than difficult.  It will be filled with doubts, fears, and desires to backtrack to safety, each of these things slow the progress for you. Slow progress make you doubt yourself and what you have chosen to do. This is pain and anguish that you can avoid by commitment to your path with your mind, soul and body all working together.  Just as these need to be aligned for your life to be it’s most fulfilling they need to be aligned for you to progress on any path you have chosen.

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Litha Blessings 2014

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Litha/Summer Solstice
On this day the Sun God is seen at his highest point in the sky, vibrant and strong. Together with the pregnant Mother Goddess he rules the summer season. However, this is also a time of transition, for now the Sun will begin its yearly descent and the days grow shorter until the Winter solstice. The Druids viewed this day as the wedding of Heaven and Earth, Alban Heruin. The Moon of this month was known as “The Honey Moon” in testimonial to the honey mead that was drank at the wedding celebrations so common to this time of year. It is interesting to note that the old calendars had summer beginning on May 1st and ending on Lammas, August 1st.
The joyous rituals of Litha celebrate the verdant Earth in high summer, abundance, fertility, and all the riches of Nature in full bloom. This is a great time of strong magic and empowerment, traditionally the time for handfasting or weddings and for communication with the spirits of Nature.
Ancient lovers believed a kiss would literally unite their souls, because the spirit was said to be carried in one’s breath.
–Eve Glicksman

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Happy New Year 2014

Happy New Year,  wishing every one a blessed and Prosperous 2014

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This New Year if you make no other Resolution think about resolving to be aware of your thoughts. Your thoughts create your world. Make sure that your New Years Resolution include paying attention to your thoughts about your self, your life, your abilities, your thoughts should only be ones that you do not mind sharing your world with. If your have made resolutions in the past and have not kept them that is not the end of the world. However if you are planning to make resolutions this New Year of 2014, give them some thought as to how doable are they really. We all have big things we would like to accomplish and that is great, just like every journey begins with one step, accomplishing great things begin with one step. If your resolution is to lose weight, find love, resolve the issue that keep you and your twin flame apart, then start with one small step. First set a goal that you can accomplish in a short period of time. Lose 5 lbs in 2 months, find love; date those people that you feel a connection to, or you have things in common with, she or he may be very attractive but if you have nothing to talk about, no common ground to connect on. you are probably not going to fall in love with each other. Resolving issue that come between you and your twin flame this year, look for ways to communicate either physically or soul to soul, begin there, no recrimination, or harboring negative feelings about past issues make these your first steps, both of which is easily accomplished with a bit of positive thought and focus on your and his/her true self during meditation or quiet contemplation. Small step to being the New Year will lead to accomplishment that can Help you make your resolutions work and keep you positive as you achieve big thins in 2014.

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Peace and Harmony Yule 2013

Wishing you Peace and Harmony this winter solstice
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Yule is a time of traditions but it is also a time of personal renewal. It is a time to find your peace and your harmony. I know that the yule season for many is a time of rushing, parties, gatherings it is and should be a time of family and friends. But do not forget what makes you a welcome yule guest in the homes of friends and family. Bring something extra to the yule holiday season this year. Bring your inner peace and harmony. It is the best gift your can give your self and those around you. Take the time to renew your inner peace and harmony. This means taking a few moments for your self to find your true self and renew your relationship with your true self. This renewal brings its’ own sense of inner peace and harmony. No matter how busy your schedule this yule holiday take time for your self. The 1/2 hour that you devote to your self and renewing your connection and awareness to your higher self/true self will go a long ways in helping you keep your inner harmony and peace no matter what is occurring around you.  If you are part of a twin flame union or part of a family remember that you can influence the energy around you. Would you prefer a harmonious, peaceful gathering, dinner or party, or one filled with stress and angst. This yule be the example of what this season is about. If you would like your family or your twin flame to be more relaxed and to take time and enjoy the season then set the example energetically and physically for them.  Everyone will benefit from renewing their personal connection with their higher mind/true self. It will help give a better perspective of the yule season and give you time to give your self the best gift of all inner peace, harmony and the clarity of a solid relationship with your true self. I wish you all a blessed Yule with love, peace, harmony and joy the gift you give your self this season and into the new year.

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Samhain 2013-Releasing the Old way of Thinking

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Samhain has many activities that you can do to enjoy the season. Look back over your year, honor your ancestors,get together with family and friends. But there is one activity that we can all practice on Samhain and that is releasing the old. The old thought process that holds you in old patterns and reactions. I bet you have changed a lot during the year you have grown spiritually and made huge strides in understanding your inner being. You have begun to accept that you are the key to your own happiness. You are understanding that the twin flame/twin soul relationship is about more than meeting someone and starting a physical relationship. You are making progress in bringing your true self forward and understanding how to communicate with your twin soul to keep the relationship moving in a positive direction. Bravo I am proud of you and the progress you are making. But wait the negative thoughts pop up and you do not instantly release them you allow them to lead you into a negative reaction or response. Well Samhain is a time for releasing the old so let see if there is a way to release old thought patterns or at least transform them to positive responses. When I was a little girl my mother use to say if you can not say something nice do not say anything at all. Well I have applied that in a way to thoughts. If you do not have a positive thought about the situation, person etc. then do not indulge in any thoughts on the matter at all.That will take a bit of practice but Samhain is as good a time as any to begin. Try this:”Every thought I am now thinking is a reminder to my conscious mind to transform negativity to positive which fills my mind with the wisdom and awareness that flows from my higher mind now”. This should help to train your mind to positive thoughts so that you begin seeing more positive results in your life. It is easy to undo personal hard work with just a few negative thoughts. Wishing you a blessed Samhain.

Lady Dyanna  a Spiritual Life Coach, Twin Flame/Twin Soul Relationship Counselor

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Emotional Healing and Protection Litha 2013

Litha a time for emotional healing and protection

As Litha/Summer Solstice approach I am reminded that it is a time that in the past was used to do healing, and protection for family and those things important to the well being of the family. As this Litha approach I would suggest that we look to emotional healing  and protection on a personal level . Healing feelings and emotions is as important as healing the physical body. I have noticed that in twin flame relationships the emotions and feeling take quite a beating as the couple  attempts to work out their relationship. That beating  is not just from the misunderstanding and mis directions that the couple endure with each other it seems that family and friends are all to willing to contribute.  This Litha celebrate the turning of the season with a bit of emotional healing and protection for your self. Start with the awareness that a twin soul relationship stem from one soul being divided into it’s male and female components and instead of working together energetically as is normal they must work through two individual physical forms. When those forms deny their oneness the emotional struggle begins. This Litha try to see the oneness in spite of everything. Try for a renewal of your relationship on the spiritual level where the souls are one and no harsh or hurtful things have been said or done. You may use meditation to reach that place, first invite your true self to join you and renew your aquaintance with her/him when you are satisfied with your communication with your true self ask if there is an irrepariable breach in the union between her/him and their other half.  Invite the other half to join you in meditation, witness that union, that connection between the two halves of the soul. From that grasp what your physical union will look and feel like. Ask them both for help with the emotional healing that must take place within you.  As you understand that on the spiritual level there is no seperation between the souls, it is only in the mind that they are seperated and in that the emotional upheaval take place, you will begin the your emotional healing. Now before you leave meditation ask for the key to protect that awareness. When dealing with your twin flame in the physical it is always acceptable to reach out to his/her true self and let them know that you remember there is no seperation. Remeber what we hold in our minds as true we create in our physical reality. So take this Litha, the longest day in the year and change your reality. The emotional healing reminds you that there is one soul two physical forms, the souls are never angry or unhappy with each other. That would be much like you being angry with half of your body. When you do something that cause you an issues you do not remain angry with yourself hopefully. You forgive your self and work with the issue. When you deal with your Twin flame it is much the same as working with your self.


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June 20, 2013  Tags: , , , , , , ,  Posted in: Healing and Protection, Seasons, spiritual relationship, twin flame relationsip   Comments Closed

Beltane 2013

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